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Retirement

The Biggest LIE About Retirement Savings

October 3, 2025
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The Headline That Terrifies Mid-Career Savers

Open a money magazine, scroll LinkedIn, or tune into late-night cable and you’ll see a scary number: $1,000,000 (lately $1.46 million). The implication is stark: fall short and your golden years turn tin. That sound bite makes excellent clickbait—but lousy personal finance.

Why? Because retirement success isn’t a single-variable equation. “Portfolio balance at the moment you leave work” is only one of five big drivers:

  1. Guaranteed income streams (Social Security, pensions, annuities, rental leases, part-time wages)
  1. Spending rhythm (needs, wants, and “go-go / slow-go / no-go” phases)
  1. Longevity and health risks
  1. Tax structure (traditional vs. Roth vs. taxable)
  1. Flexibility (ability to downsize, relocate, or trim discretionary outlays when markets misbehave)

A one-size target ignores four of the five—and often leads diligent savers to despair unnecessarily.

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The Data Paint a Much Less Dire Picture

Let’s anchor in real numbers, not internet legend.

  • Median 401(k)/IRA balance for households age 65–74 is about $164,000 (Federal Reserve SCF 2022).
  • Average Social Security benefit for new retirees in 2024 is $1,907/mo; married couples commonly collect $3 200–$3 700.
  • The Investment Company Institute followed tens of thousands of tax returns and found that retirees replace ~90% of their late-career income, even when account values were far south of seven figures.

How? Social Security + smaller-than-advertised spending + situational income (a pension, VA benefit, Airbnb, or three freelance clients) fill much of the gap that journalists assume must be bridged by a giant brokerage account.

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Debunking the Three Most Persistent “Million-Dollar” Arguments

  1. “Healthcare will bankrupt you.”
    True, medical inflation is real—but the median out-of-pocket spend (including Medicare premiums) for a 65-year-old couple is roughly $6,800/yr today. High, yes, yet still manageable when combined with Social Security and even modest savings.
  1. “Markets will crash right after you retire.”
    Sequence risk exists, yet it is portfolio design—not raw size—that defends against it. Cash buckets, flexible withdrawal rules, and partial annuitization tame the first-decade downside.
  1. “Cost of living always rises.”
    True for many line-items, but retirees’ budgets morph: mortgages disappear, commuting ends, wardrobes shrink, dining preferences shift. The BLS Consumer Expenditure Survey shows average household spending drops ~19% between ages 65–74 and 75+. Inflation hurts, but living patterns self-adjust.
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The Five Levers That Actually Dictate Retirement Success

A. Core Income Floor
    • Social Security claiming strategy
    • Defined-benefit pension or purchased lifetime annuity
    • Rental or royalty income

B. Withdrawal Flexibility
    • Can you pause travel or new-car cycles after a bear market?
    • Do you have a HELOC or home equity to tap for one-time costs?

C. Geographic Arbitrage
    • Moving from a high-tax/high-housing coastal metro to a mid-cost state can cut annual cash-flow needs by $15–$25k with zero lifestyle downgrade.

D. Tax Diversification
    • Holding money in Roth, brokerage, and pre-tax buckets lets you shape gross income each year, maximizing ACA subsidies and lowering IRMAA surcharges.

E. Human Capital
    • The option to consult 8–10 hours a week at $40 hour is worth more than a $300k bond ladder when markets stumble.

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Case Study Spotlight – Mark & Linda (Age 65, $300 k Saved)

  • Assets: $180k 401(k) + $70k IRA + $50k brokerage
  • Home: bought in 1995 for $160k, now worth $540k, mortgage balance $0
  • Income targets: $48,000/yr net feels comfortable (they live in a mid-size Kansas town)

Plan moves

  1. Sold the family house, bought a $320k condo for cash. Proceeds boosted their cash reserve to $110k and portfolios to $400k.
  1. Both claimed Social Security at 67 (benefit $3,120/month joint).
  1. Adopted a guard-rail withdrawal strategy:
  • Withdraw $900/month from investments when balance >$390k
  • Skip withdrawals if balance dips below $330k (living purely on SS for a year)
  1. Set aside $20k in an HSA and left it invested for future medical costs.

Monte-Carlo result: 98% success probability with a median terminal portfolio value around $90k at age 90—and full condo equity intact. Comfort, not extravagance, was their goal, and they hit it without a “double-comma” account.

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